Since my beginning in TKD back in 1968 Korea, age was never a question. It wasn't until I retired from all activities involving martial arts that my concern about age began. Was I too old for this or was I too old for that? You always here that age is just a number. I retired from active participation in Tae Kwon Do and any martial games in 1985. I had been a good player especially when I was on active duty in 1974 through 1978. I had some really fun times meeting all the players in the 1970's and 80's. I enjoyed the competition and it was a must that I compete. I just decided to hang up my Do Bok and call it quits. During that time it wasn't about the age but the politics which still exist today. Enough, anyone involved in the martial arts whatever style knows the politics involved.
In 2005 we moved back to Illinois and then I met my Great niece. She was only 8 at the time and after looking into photo albums boasted a claim that she was interested and could do what she had seen in pictures. My wife and I discussed it and thought we should try something small in the way of a school and if it worked out then that would be great. She (wife) wanted me active. I had found out also that I had high blood pressure and maybe exercise and medication would help. I also had the mindset of I was too old to start something and especially after being away from the art for so long I couldn't do the things I use to do. I was 57 years old and my age was blocking me from really wanting to give it a go.
So, in May of 2006 I opened a school and began to put age in the background. I must admit I was not in any kind of shape but I had the background to be able to show and help others do some good for themselves. I thought of myself as Bela Karolyi. I had never seen him in his early days as a gymnast but he was a great coach in his 50's -60's. As each person walked through the doors to sign up I didn't hide anything from them. I told them exactly who I was and where my journey began and how I wanted it to end. I was truthful with all and that was the best thing. During those early months of training those that came to our school didn't view me as an aging player or teacher. They only saw me as some one who could possibly show them the way. It was the ultimate respect. In the early years we only average about 15 to 20 students. Today we average 48 to 50 students a month.
Just think if I had let my age keep me from what I loved most in life then I wouldn't be posting today. In a few months I will be 68 years young and I don't intend to stop.
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